Monday, 2 July 2007
which relationship doesn't have a problem?
Didn't see it coming...I suppose.
It's not even a month and I already realise that Gerren and I do have a problem that isn't that easy to be solved.
He comes from an ang-moh speaking family...
and he didn't like speaking in chinese.
He even thinks that chinese "好难听”。=(
I knew that before we are together.
I come from a chinese-hokkien family...
and haha it's not that I'm boasting...but my chinese is good.
and my family doesn't really like chinese who doesn't know or refuses to speak in chinese.
He sort of knew that before we are together.
haha...complicated?
Well, I guess it's still early to think about the involvement of our families...
But then again, I realise he has been trying hard to speak alot of chinese.
and I'm trying very hard to speak totally in english.
We aren't being ourselves.
We both felt the stress when we thought that someday we have to face our families.
Anywayz I saw his mom on saturday too.
Guess his mom heard my name in chinese so she spoke to me in english-chinese..
and I too replied in english-chinese.
Why he knew it yet he wanted to be with me?
He said because his ex was westernized and he realised...
westernized girls aren't to his taste.
Serious? but he himself is westernized. duhz.
How bout me?
Well...I don't know...
I can speak english, but I need time to process. haha.
But I just like him...because I like him.
Do we really need to sort things that clearly?
I don't know...is it because I'm a libran? perhaps.
Gerren starts work today...at the Scarlet Hotel *what's that?* haha
Anyway, I will find a day..to talk about this problem.
Ain't goin to let it drag..
Avoidance is not the best solution too.
But definitely not now, when he is facing changes right now.
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